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CasualChuck
London, Ontario Canada

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Only curious about women not answering emails.
Posted: Sep 16, 2008, 7:11 AM MST

Ok...just out of curiousity..why do many women never return a simple Hello? In their profiles they say love to chat..they are in the same town or close..but do not reply. Anyways...jsut curious..most of my replies come from those 75 to 100 miles away..lol..no one likes to chat with those in their home town or surrounding area..humm...Just a thought. Have a good day all...no a great day!!

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hug_me_tighter
Delhi, Ontario Canada

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Posted: Sep 16, 2008, 12:49 PM MST

there's almost a safety if you talk to people not too close..makes running into them on the street less likely.
Kinda keeps things separate..kids..ex's...
JMO

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wellaged2007
victoria, British Columbia Canada

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Posted: Sep 16, 2008, 1:36 PM MST

yes i agree,,there is always that safe feeling,,especially when you are new.Dont ever try to figure women out,,us women on purpose change up the game rules just to keep you men on your "A" game,,lol

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maryrachelle
bathurst, New Brunswick Canada

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Posted: Sep 16, 2008, 2:22 PM MST

I don't know. I will answer that if you can answer how many men never return a simple hello.

Perhaps they don't wish to chat by email. Here is how such a chat would go.

Sender:

Hello

Receiver:

Hello

Sender:

How are you?

Receive:

Fine

Sender:

That's good

Sender:

So why are you on here

Receiver:

Didn't you read my profile?

Sender:

Yes

Receiver:

Then why are you asking

Sender:

Dunno can't think of what else to say

Receiver:

Then why bother writing me?

Then she blocks you or doesn't respond to anymore of your emails because you are boring and she could of found out you were boring just by sending her a message that was more then just "hello". You can always tell when a guy will be boring . All he sends is a "hello".

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maryrachelle
bathurst, New Brunswick Canada

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Posted: Sep 16, 2008, 2:25 PM MST

Bottom line is that most people really don't want to chat by email like they would chatting online. It's long , drawn out and boring. If you are going to send someone a message and can't think of anything else to say to this person but "hello" and nothing else , then don't send the message.

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laffingone
Port Coquitlam, British Columbia Canada

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Posted: Sep 16, 2008, 10:14 PM MST

Not that I've gotten many emails on here but the ones that say in their subject line "Hey Babe" I think, sorry I am not your babe. and then will not reply. Or they say they have seen my profile and they have not I assume they are scammers. Maybe they are not but who knows? and why take chances.

I would write you back chuck, but of course I am one of those women who lives a few provinces away.

Thanks for the

by the way.

I guess you and I guess all of us need to have patience. When the time is right, the right person will either write you back or contact you.

laff

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hollandgirl
Kelowna, British Columbia Canada

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Posted: Sep 17, 2008, 4:15 AM MST

laffingone wrote:

So what he live a few provinces away? I know it is not ideal but it could be worse like living in Timbaktoo huh?
Where there is a will, there is a way!
I am saying; go for it!

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kissmedeeply
Asheville, North Carolina, North Carolina USA

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Posted: Sep 17, 2008, 5:31 AM MST

CasualChuck wrote:

Maybe just Maybe you are sending them to the wrong ladies..

Best of Luck..

But dont let that get you down..

I am sure in no time you will get some nice chats going along

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CasualChuck
London, Ontario Canada

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Posted: Sep 17, 2008, 6:56 AM MST

Thank you everyone for your thoughts. I love it when I learn for others. I do not judge those who do not return emails..or a simple Hello. But you all gave me some enlightenment. Thanks you. I am always learning , every day, from everyone, good and bad. I usually learn more about myself..lol..good and bad..lol. Take care and best of luck to all who are searching and learning.

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curvychick
Toronto, Ontario Canada

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Posted: Sep 17, 2008, 10:24 AM MST

CasualChuck wrote:

Hey Casual

ok, I cannot answer for the women whom you HAVE emailed but I can speak for me!

If someone takes the time out to say hello, I will do the same....maybe thru a flower instead of an email... it's common courtesy for me!

however, if the emailing persists and he writes again, I will simply tell him the truth!@ for example, thank you but I am looking for someone whom lives in my city currently....or that I am not interested but thanks for the email just the same.

Some of us are not on here for chit chat...some of us are on here for the simple reason of finding that "rocking chair love" that we all want..... and they figure why make small talk when we have already assumed it "ain't going anywhere"

OR, many of us only have access at work (such as I) and so, our time is lmited (break, lunch hour, etc).....

Pre-Judgement, it happens every day I guess......

Don' think that all women are the same...cause we are not.... just as all men aren't from the same cloth!

I wish you much luck...and as posted by someone previous to me, don't just write hello! IF her profile interested you, say so in your email and ask if she would be interested in chatting....maybe you OPENING the line of communication will give you most responses!

good luck to you!

cheers

Curvy

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